At many weddings, the groomsmen’s outfits arrive from the tailor the night before, and at least one jacket does not fit. Coordinating a group of men with different sizes, budgets and schedules is a planning task in its own right. Starting early and keeping choices simple prevents most problems.
Style, colours and setting the groom apart
Choose between Western suits, tuxedos, traditional attire such as agbada, kaftans or smock, or a mix for different ceremonies. Many couples choose suits for the church and traditional wear for the reception or traditional marriage. Groomsmen often wear colours that match or complement the bridesmaids and wedding theme. Ties, pocket squares or cloth accents can tie the look together without requiring identical suits.
The groom should stand out, through a different colour, fabric, jacket or accessory.
Who pays, tailoring and accessories
Decide early whether groomsmen pay for their outfits or whether the couple will help. Be clear and considerate of different budgets. Using one tailor for all outfits helps consistency. Collect measurements early, and schedule fittings. Start at least three months before the wedding for custom outfits. Leave time for alterations. Agree on shoe colour and style. Socks, belts, cufflinks and caps should be coordinated too.
Renting suits can save money, but check fit and condition well before the wedding.
Comfort, tradition and grooming
Choose breathable fabrics for hot weather. Heavy suits in an Accra or Lagos afternoon can be miserable. For traditional marriages, groomsmen may wear matching family cloth or attire chosen by the families. Check with elders. Encourage groomsmen to get haircuts a few days before the wedding. Ask your photographer to take a group photo of the groomsmen early in the day, before ties loosen and jackets come off. Plan a few fun shots too.
Spares, thanks and the weather
Keep spare buttons, a sewing kit, safety pins and an extra tie in the groom’s bag. Small problems are easy to fix when you are prepared. Groomsmen spend time and money supporting you. A small gift, such as cufflinks or a personalised item, shows appreciation. Plan for rain. Groomsmen are remembered in the photos for years. A little coordination now saves a lot of explaining when someone asks why one of them is wearing different shoes.
