Almost no wedding gown fits perfectly straight off the rail or the sewing machine. Bridal shops, seamstresses and designers all expect alterations, and the brides who suffer are the ones who leave them until the week of the wedding.
Start with the timeline
For a ready-made or imported gown, order it six to nine months before the wedding to allow for delivery delays. For a gown made by a local designer, book your designer early, because the good ones are busy in the peak seasons. Plan for two or three fittings in the final two to three months.
First fitting
The first fitting usually happens about two to three months before the wedding. This is when the main alterations are marked: taking in or letting out the bodice, adjusting the length and fixing the straps or sleeves. Bring the exact shoes and underwear you will wear on the day, because they change the length and fit.
Second fitting
About a month later, the dress should fit closely. This fitting checks that the changes worked and that you can walk, sit, kneel and dance in it. Kneeling matters at many Ghanaian and Nigerian ceremonies, so test it. Move your arms as if hugging guests and raising your hands in worship.
Final fitting
The final fitting takes place one to two weeks before the wedding. Bring the person who will help you dress on the day, often your maid of honour or a sister, so they can learn how to fasten the gown, tie the corset or arrange the train. Ask how to bustle the train for the reception.
Weight changes
Many brides change weight in the months before the wedding, through stress or planning to lose weight. Tell your seamstress about your plans. It is easier to take a dress in than to let it out, but do not order a gown several sizes smaller in hope.
Budget for alterations
Alteration fees can be significant, particularly for beadwork, lace and complicated structures. Ask for a price before work begins and get it in writing. If you are renting a gown, ask what alterations are allowed and whether they cost extra.
The engagement outfit too
If you are having a traditional engagement with kente, lace or aso oke, the same rules apply. Kaba and slit outfits need fittings as well. Do not let the white gown take all your attention while the traditional outfit is left until the last week.
Collect it on time
Collect the gown a few days before the wedding, not on the morning. Check every seam, button and hook at the shop. Store it in its bag, hanging, in a cool place away from cooking smells.
Three fittings may feel excessive in a busy planning schedule. They are much less stressful than a dress that will not zip on the morning of your wedding.
