The groom’s family has presented the drinks, the cloth and the money. Everyone waits for the bride. A young woman, covered in cloth, is led out. The groom’s spokesperson looks closely and shakes his head: this is not her. The crowd laughs. Another woman appears, then another. Only after some teasing does the real bride finally emerge. The “fake brides” custom is one of the most entertaining moments at Ghanaian traditional weddings.
How it works and why families do it
The bride’s family brings out women who are not the bride, often relatives or friends, sometimes with faces covered. The groom’s family must identify whether each one is the bride. The custom adds fun and suspense. It also playfully tests whether the groom’s family knows the bride and values her. Sometimes the groom’s family pays a small amount to send each fake bride away, adding to the gifts for the bride’s family.
Who plays the fake brides
Cousins, sisters, friends or even older women may play the part, sometimes in deliberately comic outfits. When the real bride appears, she is often greeted with cheers, songs and dancing. Her entrance is one of the main photo moments. The custom appears in different forms across Ghana. Some families keep it short; others make it a long performance.
Similar practices exist in Nigeria and other African countries, where the groom’s family must find the real bride among impostors. Families should keep the fun light and avoid embarrassing anyone. The custom can take time. Coordinate with the MC and spokespersons to keep the programme on schedule.
Photos, planning and cash at the ready
Tell your photographer to capture the fake brides as well as the real entrance. The reactions make great pictures. The bride’s family usually organises the fake brides. Couples may want to know who will take part. Many guests say this is their favourite part of the ceremony. The groom’s family should keep small notes ready for the playful payments.
Bring a family member who knows the bride well, so they can recognise her quickly and enjoy the joke. Traditional weddings are full of serious moments: negotiations, prayers and blessings. The fake brides are there to remind everyone that marriage also needs laughter.
