Guests remember the dancing and the food, but the heart of a wedding is the ceremony. The person leading it, your officiant, sets the tone and, in most cases, ensures your marriage is legally and religiously valid.
Who can officiate
In Ghana, ordinance marriages must be celebrated by an authorised minister in a licensed place of worship or by a registrar. Muslim marriages are led by an imam. Check the legal requirements with your church, mosque or the registrar.
Your own pastor or imam
Many couples ask the leader of their own congregation. A pastor or imam who knows you can make the ceremony personal and may also provide premarital counselling.
Different churches
If you and your partner belong to different churches, discuss where the wedding will take place and which minister will lead it. Some couples invite both ministers to share the service.
Meet early
Meet your officiant months before the wedding. Discuss dates, counselling requirements, the order of service and any fees or offerings expected.
The vows
Ask whether you can write personal vows or must use traditional ones. Many churches allow personal words alongside the standard vows.
Sermon length
Politely discuss the length of the sermon. A short, meaningful message keeps guests attentive and the programme on time.
Music and readings
Agree on songs, Bible or Quran readings and who will read them. Some churches have rules about secular music during the ceremony.
Paperwork
Confirm who handles the marriage certificate and registration, and what documents you need to bring.
Rehearsal
Invite your officiant to the rehearsal, or at least share the timeline. They can guide the bridal party on where to stand and when to move.
Thank them
After the wedding, thank your officiant, with a note, gift or offering according to your church’s custom.
Premarital counselling
Many churches require couples to complete premarital counselling before the wedding. Start early, as sessions may run for several weeks. Couples often say these conversations about money, family and conflict were among the most useful parts of their preparation.
Timing on the day
Agree the start time with your officiant and aim to arrive on time. Some churches have other services scheduled, and a late start can shorten your ceremony.
More than a speaker
A good officiant does more than read words. They help the couple understand what they are promising. Choose someone whose guidance you would value long after the wedding day.
